April 21st, 2009

single deer

Tolle Tuesday...

Whatever you cannot enjoy doing, you can at least accept that this is what you have to do. Acceptance means: For now, this is what this situation, this moment, requires me to do, and so I do it willingly.

This is a needed thought today, and I completely agree with it. Sometimes, we just have to do what's before us, whether we want to or not. Things are still sooooo busy around here right now. DH's stress level is rising, and even though he tries not to, he does end up taking it out on me. He starts thinking (not even consciously) that his time is more valuable than mine, and that leads to trouble! Last night, at 10:05, he wanted me to help him figure out his word processing program -- and I just wanted to go to bed! He was frustrated because I didn't help, and I was frustrated that he even expected me to...

So yes, I'm going to attempt to do this every moment -- we will get through this, I know. But it would be nice to have some peace while doing so :)

What say you, my wise friends?
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